Why is it ok for a girl to say no to sex but not a guy? If a guy tells a pretty girl no he doesn't want to have sex he is often called gay. Have you ever tried to tell your girlfriend you didn't want to have sex? Has your boyfriend ever told u that? Why does saying no to sex make some girls mad?
D. Young (noon)
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I can only guess that if the girl gets mad, she's probably angry out of sexual frustration. Also, she could just be sensitive, especially if she's pretty, and saying no makes here feel like she did something wrong. I've never tried to tell a girl I didn't want to have sex. Although I did lie to a girl and told her that I would have sex with her the following week, but never did. I had good reasons though. She was pretty mad.
I think that it makes them mad because it hurts their self-esteem. Everyone especially females believe that they're the shit and dat they look good. For a women to get turned down is like da ultimate insult. It's even worse if she approaced u first. It makes them feel like sometghings wrong with them. Some women get mad simply because they can't have they way and they not used to that. Although i must say not all women get mad, they jus get the next guy..... DAMN I'M GOOD
Gabriel Moore
It doesnt only make girls mad it can make men mad too. I have told my boyfriend no to sex and he got upset. It just makes you feel like the person that rejected you, whether it be a male or female, doesn't want you. It tends to hurt feelings. When you are with someone you want to please them and that is a part of pleasing a partner. When you say "no" it shocks the other person and hurts their feelings.
--Jodi
I have a feeling that the girls are starting to act like the boys!! Us ladies have dealt with this issue for years and have yet to figure out an answer. I do believe girls, may just be paying back the boys! As we have all had to see our way through it, so shall you. Keep your pants up, and stick with "no".....who cares if they think your gay....No means No!
~ Char Chipman
Dude are you gay?
Ben Dover
girls get what they want, get used to it. may as well let them think they're in charge.
-mykel toliver
Everything is her way or the highway.Girls always have to have what they want. when they want. how they want. all the time.
-Mike Hawk
well id suppose that if a girl got pissed because she wanted it and you wouldnt give it to her shes a whore and got stds. either that or you dont want any attachment between your in her. ie money reasons, friends, family,
maybe the guy thinks that the lady has something that he does not want to contract. even though it may not be true, some people are supersticious like that
Aaron M
well i know when i want to get it on and she says no i get pissed so i would understand
zach brooks
Are women ofended because when told no they think it says they arent attractive. Or what if a guy dosnt want a women to think that its all he wants from her?
Emmett
if a girl can turn down sex i believe a guy should be able to also and not be called gay.
RAD
well it depends on what the ballbuster looks like. that is probably true cuz your buddies are jealous.no sir cant say i am always in the mood.no im am not gay.well cant say i have ever said no.
there's nothing wrong if a guy were to say "no i dont want to have sex". yes their buddies may heckle them roundly. as for the girl getting mad at a guy for saying no, thats never happened to me but id assume if a girl is mad that the guy said no then she really wants it and i woulodnt be stupid enough to pass up sex with a girl who wanted it just as much as i did.
I dont know what is wrong with a guy that says no to sex. If the girl is really ugly i can see sayin no. But i dont take no as a ansewer.
black smoke,
Chris Clark
I never told a pretty girl that I dont want to have sex. I think its disrespectful to say no to a pretty girl.
Tim
If a girl can turn down sex it is just as even if a guy can turn down sex without being gay. it is rediculous to call a guy gay if he wants to not have sex.
Tyler
IF A DUDE SAYS NO TO SAY I THINK THATS SOME PLAYA SHIT ON HIS PART. I MEAN THATS VERY RARE FOR A GUY TO TURN DOWN THE BOOTY LOL
TED MONEY
I think when a guy says no to sex, it makes a woman feel like there is something wrong with her, even though that may not even be the case, so the first instinct is to get mad,to avoid that embarresed feeling she may have. you have to remember, we are very emotional,but on the other hand... if he dosn't want you, he dosn't want you, dont get mad about it, maybe your not his type or... maybe he is gay lol!
i believe that if a guy says no then thats his choice. he might of been with 20 girls in his life jus becuze he turns down one doesnt mean hes gay. and the guys who talk big about gettin girls have never been laid before.
If a guy says no to a girl, maybe he's just trying to make a point (how do you like it?). If that's not it then maybe he is queer.
--R.J. Rowland--
Most men have high sex drives,and don't turn down anything,but if a man do turn down a pretty woman,he has his reason. If the female really loves him,she might get hurt but not mad. The male will have to explain why,which might be a good reason. Their are things that can happen that can stop you from having sex,like the death of someone close to you,like a mother or father or even a son or daughter.
It’s okay for anyone to say no to sex. Everyone has their needs but if someone doesn’t want it a simple no SHOULD do the trick. I don’t think it’s fair that when a guy turns down a girl for sex he’s called gay. Maybe he’s not a ho, like most of the rest. I’ve never had this problem but I guess some people just don’t want it. Some girls might get mad because when their boyfriend asks to have sex they may say yes just to please them so they want to be pleased too. Otherwise I’m not really sure.
-Heather Alber
Because guys are'nt girls and we can't hold back.No. I do not know because i have never said no.
By international harvester
I said no to a girl once but I was never called gay or anything. We had a relationship at the time, but I had heard so much stuff from other people about her slepping with other guys before our relationship that I used cation. I wanted to see what she was about first and then we could get to that point. I think it s the world we live in today that makes us think like that. If some one fine comes up to you and wants to have sex, you are suppose to say no. Other case of the US being "postive to the negative, and negative to the positive."
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